Monday, June 27, 2016

pregnant dotty, getting dressed, and going to work

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If you've ever attempted to buy work clothes to accommodate a bump, you understand that while it is very easy to look comfortable, looking professional is a whole other story.  I relied very heavily on my jacket collection because even when my shoes stopped fitting, my jackets still did.  (Unbuttoned, of course!)  I was still doing site visits for one of my projects up until my last week, so just imagine those skinny pants paired with steel-toed boots.  Also imagine a bunch of construction workers being very nervous when a super pregnant lady shows up in a hard hat and asks a bunch of questions.

Anywho, my top pregnant-but-still-professional outfit combinations...

[one and two] patterned jacket+maternity dress: One of my co-workers who was pregnant with her second clued me in to the wonderfulness of the Liz Lange maternity dresses at Target.  They are definitely casual on their own, but with a necklace and jacket they clean up pretty nicely.

[three and four] jacket+maternity wrap dress: I bought a wrap dress in December and wore it until April because it was wonderfully expandable.

[five, six, and seven] skinny maternity pants+maternity tee+jacket: I tried really hard to find maternity dress pants, but it was just a disaster.  If the legs worked then the belly band would be itchy or tight or for someone carrying quadruplets.  Or vice versa.  I found these skinny pants at H&M fairly early on and bought a second pair to make it through.

Wednesday, June 22, 2016

dotty, pink-ness, and leftover maternity clothes

pink jacket outfit [wearing]
jacket: h&m
top: asos
jeans: joe's jeans
shoes: vince
bag: rebecca minkoff 

[three things] 
1. Oh look, an outfit post! These might be few and far between, but here's one to start things off anyway.

2. I'm wearing a maternity shirt.  (Shhh!)  I cleared out 95% of my maternity clothes right after Maddie was born, but I kept a few tops that weren't obviously maternity.

3. Pink!  We painted the accent wall in the kiddo's room a pink pattern and ever since I've been more open to the more blush-ish pink tones.  And well, I definitely don't need any more black blazers in rotation!

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Tuesday, June 7, 2016

our little madeline

Oh, hellooooo!  I took a bit of a break there and now (presto-chango) I'm a mama!

Some people really enjoy being pregnant.  I am not one of those people.  Every single day I was amazed by my body's ability to grow a human, but also felt incredibly unlike myself.  I also had some transportation issues since I had trouble with planes, trains, automobiles, (and buses) making me feel absolutely awful.  My job unfortunately involved a lot of site visits and meetings in the first few months before I announced my pregnancy, so there were a lot of pep talks to myself that went something like "you just have to not throw up and sound passably knowledgeable during this train ride, three meetings, and client lunch and then you can go home and eat watermelon in your pajamas."  Apart from me feeling icky, I had no pregnancy complications whatsoever up until the very end.  So as a worrier, I had it really quite good.

Fast forward to thirty-six weeks and six days when I had my regular  appointment on a Friday afternoon with my midwife and got sent to the hospital for some blood pressure monitoring due to some minor maybe-could-be-something symptoms.  We stopped for donuts on the way and I even told a stranger in the waiting room that I still had a month to go.  A few episodes of SVU later, I officially had severe preeclampsia and my hospital team had decided that it was baby time.  Fourteen hours and many buckets of ice chips later I was holding our perfect, tiny Madeline.  I had a really awful first night with a hemorrhage and more blood pressure problems, but my veins got their act together so we could both be discharged on schedule.  It was very much not the birth I had planned for, but two months later I have finally come to terms with it, and am so thankful for the midwives, doctors, and nurses that were part of it.  And really, how amazing is it that my husband and I now have this adorable human that's a combination of the two of us?  There are not enough heart-eyes emojis to express how much I love this little family of mine.

So, let's rewind to last August for a giant photo recap!

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five weeks: big shoe decisions for a cocktail party we hosted the day after I found out I was pregnant.

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fourteen weeks: and very happily vacationing in hawaii

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fourteen weeks: still in hawaii and wearing rompers as much as possible.

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eighteen weeks: at home in michigan for a wedding and getting poked by Jake.

preggers011twenty-nine weeks: and a serious bump

preggers013 thirty-one weeks: serious excitement about a new non-maternity shirt

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thirty-three weeks: and going bowling.  I lasted one game since it really is quite difficult to bowl whilst super-pregnant.

preggers002 thirty-four weeks: at our baby shower in Michigan.

preggers027 thirty-six weeks +six days: Jake showing the appropriate level of concern for the situation and me pretending that the incessant beeping of my monitors was totally normal.

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one day old: our little Madeline May

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two days old: my recovery compression boots.  fun fact: I temporarily lost all feeling in my left knee cap...which is really a very, very strange feeling.

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three days old: Jake and Madeline getting ready to go home.

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four days old: burrito'd at home.

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five days old: family portrait.

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seven weeks old: Maddie looks unamused, but I am officially declared recovered.

Wednesday, November 25, 2015

dotty, a quick hello, and gratuitous vacation photos

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[oh hi!]
*tap, tap* Is this still on?  It is?  Okay, great.
It's been awhile, eh?  The job monster swallowed me alive for the last few months and while we managed to throw an unprecedented amount of parties, I've been mostly focused on un-photogenic career-ish things.  (And finding the perfect ice bucket.)  As a result, I have been wearing a lot of simple, blacked out outfits.
But then, all of sudden, things got much, much sunnier and much, much warmer.  Because we finally took one of those vacation things.  Eeep!  And just like that, Bruce (our camera) re-appeared and I took a break from wearing the same three black pairs of pants on repeat.
So, if you're in a winter snowderland right now, then I apologize for the inundation of palm trees to follow.  I feel you though, we're headed to the mitten state for Thanksgiving this week...where we are guaranteed all-you-can-eat gloomy weather.  (And pie.  Lots of pie.)

[wearing]
cardigan: twelfth street by cynthia vincent
dress: madewell
flops: lc lauren conrad
sunnies: amazon

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Thursday, July 30, 2015

dotty, easy peasy, and summer outfits

dotfit [wearing]
dress: cos
heels: charles by charles david
bag: madewell
necklace: forever21

[three things]
1. I had a big bruise on my calf last week from a run-in with a very heavy suitcase of material samples and couldn't wear dresses.  Putting together pants outfits when it's hot out is way harder, but this bruise was seriously icky-looking and I didn't really want to explain that I'm not capable of getting myself to meetings without my luggage injuring me.  #grownupfail  #dressesfolife

2. In the past I've tended to belt this bag-like dress, but lately I've just been wearing heels with it and ignoring the shapelessness.

3. Whoa hey, August is almost here.  How did that happen?  #sneakybugger

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Monday, July 20, 2015

dotty, black pants, and stapling

dotfit [wearing]
jacket: banana republic
tank: old navy
pants: banana republic
flats: justfab
bag: madewell

[three things]
1. My next desk neighbor at work bought this same jacket last week.  This could get awkward.  Or just like a grownup twin day.

2. Comfy black dress pants are definitely the foundation of my whole work wardrobe.  And my weekend wardrobe too.  Funny how that works.

3. We spent our weekend Pitchfork-ing, so the transition back to desk life is extra tough.  Blergh.

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